November 13, 2018
Gideon Tsang finishes our vision series on Rootedness by exploring what it looks like for us to consent to rootedness and the fruit that we’ll bear [John 15:15-17].
- What kind of people do we want to be in 20 years?
- What kind of fruit do we hope to produce over time?
- Video: Mindful Silence (Phileena Heuertz)
- Attend the new building open house. What is your Oneing dream for Vox? How can we dissolve our illusions of separateness?
- Dream of a name that captures our lasting fruit. Submit it to firstname.lastname@example.org. How can you be a part of that dream?
November 7, 2018
Jason Minnix continues our vision series on Rootedness by exploring how being rooted in community changes our relationship with God over time [John 15:9-14].
- How is God inviting the mess of who I am into love?
- How am I being invited into the mystery of intimacy now?
- Book: The Forgotten Desert Mothers (Laura Swan)
- Receiving Love. How is God inviting the mess of who I am into love? (all of my questions, doubts, suspicions, addictions, smallness, all of it) What are the parts of my life that need a home in community? (will you bring them in slow and small ways)
November 1, 2018
Gideon Tsang continues our vision series on Rootedness by considering why we should be rooted with Christ and each other [John 15:4-8].
- How is Christ inviting the disappointment of our exterior lives to deepen into our interior lives?
- What does it look like to root together with the Vox community this season?
- Podcast: On Being (Kevin Kelly)
- Examine your interior and exterior life. What disappoints you about your exterior life? Embrace the disappointment. Receive your invitation to Christ IN you.
- Stake your claim in our collective soil through the new building: Ask, Donate, Volunteer
October 26, 2018
Jason Minix starts our vision series on Rootedness by reflecting on what it means to become more rooted to God and a spiritual community [John 15:1-4].
- How am I being invited into rootedness now?
- What surfaces for healing in me now as I consider rooting?
- Vine Inventory. What vines am I attached to right now? (friends, family, work, hobbies, faith community) How much do I give to them? (physically, mentally, emotionally) Are they still meaningful to the same degree they once were? Is it time to renegotiate my vines?
- Consenting to Rootedness. What are we being invited to consent to, and where do I need to make space for healing first? How is God being stingy to bring to beauty and meaning every detail of my story eventually? How is God joyfully wasting love on me now?
October 18, 2018
Geeta Mondol shares about her recent challenges and God’s provision as she continues the work of the Ashish Centre in New Dehli, India [Luke 5:17-26].
- What does our posture of faith and hope look like in uncertain situations?
- In what ways have we experienced healing into community?
- Video: Become Weaker (Jean Vanier)
- Video: Healed into Community (Sara Miles)
October 10, 2018
Liz Schepel reflects on how we handle tension and how we relate to God in that tension? [Job 2:1-10].
- What tensions am I holding in life right now? How have I been relating to God as a result?
- What would it look like to be present with God in a non-transactional way this week?
- Podcast: On Being - Resilience After Loss (Sheryl Sandberg)
- In times of tension, how do I approach God in a transactional way? Is there a transactional tension that I am wrestling with right now?
October 3, 2018
Gideon Tsang reflects on how full we are of gratitude and what questions we can ask that lead us to gratitude [Psalm 103].
- How has God healed us?
- How does contentment work in my life?
- What does it mean that God's love is steadfast and expansive?
- Video: Obama Dropping Off Malia for College
- Consider a friend in the pit. Offer them tender mercy. Observe their experience. Consider that’s God’s gift to our woundedness
- God, grant me the grace to be in the space between impulse and action. God, grant me the space to be in the grace between impulse and action
September 27, 2018
Jason Minnix talks about how we reflect and engage the place we find ourselves and the vulnerability that it requires [Mark 9:30-37].
- What or who am I struggling to accept in my journey now?
- How can I welcome vulnerability, both mine and those around me, this week?
- Video: Pink Surprised
- Disillusionment Prayer - God I’m feeling ___ (disillusioned, hopeless, despair, exhausted, sad, angry, crushed) by ___ happening or not happening. Please give me some support and presence this week as I process. Remind me of your acceptance, even now. Amen.
- Acceptance Prayer - God of acceptance, thank you for choosing me and refusing to reject me even when I reject you. Help me this week to believe you are accepting the parts of myself and others I find annoying and am embarrassed about. Show me how to accept ___ about myself this week with your compassion and gentle smile. Amen.
- Welcoming Prayer - Welcome, welcome, welcome. I welcome everything that comes to me today because I know it's for my healing. I welcome all thoughts, feelings, emotions, persons, situations, and conditions. I let go of my desire for power and control. I let go of my desire for affection, esteem, approval and pleasure. I let go of my desire for survival and security. I let go of my desire to change any situation, condition, person or myself. I open to the love and presence of God and God's action within. Amen.
September 19, 2018
Chris Morton reflects on how we navigate problems in our lives and how it is connected with our worship and community [John 4:1-26, 39-42].
- Do I know what I have and don’t have to give to God?
- Does my worship bring life or death to myself and others?
September 14, 2018
Tim Brosnan reflects on how we interact and respond to difficult and challenging situations we experience [Psalm 146].
Where have you seen God’s help break into impossible situations?
How might you posture yourself to participate in the giving and receiving of such help?
Video: Thai Cave Rescue
Reflect on these questions in the context of your current season. What help do I need? Where am I looking for help?
September 4, 2018
Jason Minnix reflects on how our habits move us into healthy spiritual living with others and God and to consider whether certain habits are useful or not [Mark 7:1-8].
- What habits of thinking, feeling or doing am I being invited to renegotiate?
- Where do I hear invitation to direct intimacy?
- Video: SNL Sean Spicer Press Conference
- Name Empty Habits: What habits of thinking, feeling or doing have outlived their usefulness? How can we begin to see them for what they are? Consider your habits that attempt to address your spiritual needs. Do they do this, or are they empty? Begin to be curious about what’s behind them.
August 29, 2018
Sarah Berson reflects on how we are invited to put on the image of God [Ephesians 6:10-17].
- Where do I need support for my gut and/or strength in resisting shame?
- Where do I need support for my heart, and what doubts hold me back from emotional safety?
- What thoughts dominate my self-talk, and how can I find strength to connect to God?
- Video: Best of Coyote and Roadrunner
August 23, 2018
Jason Minnix invites us to lean into an area of our life that needs direction and how God invites us to walk in wisdom [I Kings 3:5-15].
Where do I need to ask for support in order to fulfill my calling now? What is something simple I can prepare a meal for this week?
Film: Don’t Worry, He Won’t Get Far on Foot
- Consider an area of your life that feels overwhelming or too much. Perhaps there’s something you feel inadequate to navigate on your own. Hold out your hand with your palm open. Ask God to walk with you this week and give you wisdom in this area.
- Host something or someone simple this week. What’s an area within or a person in your life whose simpleness is hard to be around? Offer what is simple the food and drink of empathy. Make room for questions that may not even have answers right now, but they are worthy of being asked.
August 15, 2018
Jane Patterson reflects on the the ways that God sustains us through life when the journey seems too much for us [1 Kings 19:4-8].
What have you learned from experience about what truly fuels you in difficult times?
What is your experience of the dance of grace and effort in your own life? When has God surprised you with sustenance? When have you needed to "get up and eat"?
August 7, 2018
Matt Inman reflects on the love we have been given and are called to live from [Ephesians 4:1-16].
- What barriers to love exist in your life currently?
- Who in your life is helping you grow in love?
- Video: Missouri vs Kansas Football
- Video: TED Talk - Play is Fundamental (Stuart Brown)
- Does gentleness, humility or patience most resonate with you right now? Practice living one out this week, and when you fail, double down on living it out for yourself all the more.
- Consider who your rivals are and what is so threatening about them to you. How does this kind of hate create a barrier to allowing love to come in and go out in you life?
- Consider what growth and maturity look like to you. Does it make space for you to play? Is there one way you carry yourself physically that is too rigid, too serious or closed off that doesn’t accurately communicate the love you have for others?
August 1, 2018
Marlon Hall facilitates an ecological conversation about diversity and reflects on the invitation towards cross-pollination and authenticity [Genesis 1:1-3].
- What if the gritty spaces we are socially and racially in are an invitation to grow a new culture?
- Is diversity an end or a means to the end of a new cultural authenticity?
- Folklore Films
- Meet with someone different from you this week to hear their story and find your story in theirs.
- Journal on the privileges that you have and experience.
- Pursue friendship with someone who is different from you.
July 25, 2018
Jason Minnix reflects on the way Jesus lived out compassion and what that means for how we show compassion in our lives [Mark 6:30-34, 53-56].
- What are some of my needs that I am being invited to care for this week?
- Who am I being invited to shift from empathy to compassion for?
- Film: Eighth Grade
- Practicing solitude and ease. Move into a solitary space and find some ease this week. What or where is my solitary space now? What is my process of entering into ease?
- Practicing compassion. Where do I need guidance today? Where do I need to trust my Self (image of God) more? Where am I being invited to move from pity or empathy to compassion? With whom do I need to practice trusting they everything they need for healing?
July 20, 2018
Judy Peterson reflects on how God creates everything with intent and purpose and how each of us is a unique reflection of the image of God [Genesis 1:26-27].
- What are the"thats" that are not a part of the "THIS" God had created you to be?
- Who are the "thems" to which you tend to conform and how might God be calling you to stand in your unique "THISNESS" so that your community might come to see God more clearly?
July 11, 2018
John Chandler reflects on how the practice of fasting can actually integrate the soul and body instead of simply denying the body [Galatians 5:16-25].
- What has been your understanding of the relationship between your spirit and your body?
- What might it look like for you to incorporate a regular practice of fasting?
- Book: Spiritual Disciplines Handbook (Adele Ahlberg Calhoun)
- Fasting: Pre-select a specific amount of time. Replace prep and eating time with prayer and reflection. Use your hunger to focus on your heart and soul rather than your belly.
July 4, 2018
Matt Inman reflects on the ways and approaches that we use in dealing with pain in our lives [Lamentation 3:22-33].
Are you currently working through pain in your life? What does that process look like for you?
When you believe your pain or patterns are too much for God, what does that do to your sense of belonging?
Podcast: You Made it Weird (Mark Paul Gossilaar)
Try curious listening this week. Listen with the intent to learn something new from others, scripture and your surroundings.
As we struggle, look for an activity that will either help you start the work or help you take a break in order to sustain your work. Activities include solitude, silence, prayer, writing exercises, laughter, etc.
Spend some time with a friend or community that has shown you faithfulness, as you are. Then spend time afterward taking an inventory on your thoughts and feelings. Acknowledging that moment as an example or version of God’s loyal love.